They be thinking you’ll always be around, like you don’t peep the weird energy. Like you can’t tell when they start moving different. Spoiler: you can. And while they’re busy being nonchalant, you’re quietly packing up your energy and exiting stage left.
Here’s 10 ways people fumble you without even realizing they just took the biggest L.
1. Acting Too Cool to Care
That “I don’t wanna seem pressed” energy? Cute in theory—until you start treating someone who wanted you like they’re disposable. Big mistake.
2. Thinking You’ll Always Text First
If I always gotta carry the convo, you’re not slow-fading me, I’m just gonna stop replying one day and never look back. Fumble complete.
3. Giving Mixed Signals Like It’s Flirting
If you like me, say that. If you don’t, also say that. This “one day hot, one day cold” routine ain’t chemistry—it’s confusion.
4. Downplaying Your Role in the Vibe
They act like it wasn’t them who was laughing too hard at your jokes, double-texting, and staying up on FaceTime ’til 3 a.m. Now suddenly they “don’t catch feelings easy”? Okay.
5. Acting Different When They Friends Around
Don’t treat me like your person in private, but a “who’s that?” in public. That switch-up energy gets noticed real quick
6. Not Matching Energy, Just Draining It
You ever talk to someone and leave the convo feeling more tired than before? Yeah. That’s a fumble. Energy vampires get blocked, not healed.
7. Only Showing Up When It’s Convenient
If I only hear from you when you’re bored, lonely, or need something, I already know what it is—and I’m gone before you even realize I left.
8. Ignoring the Little Things
You knew I liked forehead kisses, random check-ins, and playlists. You just got lazy. You didn’t lose me—you benched yourself.
Before we get into the last two, here’s a video with some more examples lol
9. Thinking Loyalty Means Tolerating Disrespect
I was loyal, not stupid. There’s a difference between ride or die, and ride or cry
10. Mistaking Peace for Weakness
I wasn’t quiet ‘cause I didn’t care. I was quiet because I was watching. And once I’m done watching, I’m done for real.
Final Word:
Fumbling somebody solid don’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it’s just a bunch of missed calls, dry texts, and a vibe you never matched. The worst part? You won’t even realize what you lost ’til you see them glowing without you
