Toya Bush-Harris Talks Today’s #MarriedToMedicine Reunion, ‘Mean Girl’ Group Allegations & Quad’s ‘Inauthentic’ Apology [Exclusive]

Source:
Phylicia
J.
L.
Munn
/
Bravo

The

#MarriedToMedicine
reunion
is
underway
and
ahead
of
it,
an
O.G.
told
BOSSIP
that
she’s
prepped
and
ready
like
a
student
aiming
for
extra
credit.

“I’ve
been
doing
my
homework
and
in
doing
my
homework,
I’ve
come
to
a
place
where
I
just
want
to
put
to
rest
some
of
the
lies
that’s
out
there,”
said

Toya
Bush-Harris
“The
lies
that

Quad
has
put
out
there
about
the
cast
and
about
me
over
the
years.”

Bravo
has
confirmed
that
the
ladies
of

Married
To
Medicine
are
all
currently
filming
the
show’s
tenth
reunion
in
NYC
and
in
traditional
fashion,
they’ve
shared
the
official
seating
chart.
In
an
interesting
twist,
the
chart
shows
the
coveted
chairs
closest
to
Andy
Cohen
going
to

Dr.
Simone
Whitmore
and

Dr.
Jackie
Walters.

Toya,
Lateasha
“Sweet
Tea”
Lunceford,
and
Dr.
Alicia
Egolum
are
seated
on
the
left
behind
Simone
while
Dr.
Heavenly
Kimes,
Phaedra
Parks,
and
Quad
“Ms.
Quad”
Webb
are
seated
behind
Jackie
on
the
right.

We
called
in
an
early
look
at
the
Season
10
seating
chart!
Sit
down
with
the
ladies
AND
their
husbands
at
the

#Married2Med
Reunion
soon
👀

pic.twitter.com/p9eG7UZiRH

—
Bravo
(@BravoTV)

January
24,
2024

The
seating
chart
is
already
creating
buzz
and
according
to
Toya,
there’s
more
excitement
to
come—just
as
long
as
things
don’t
get
too
out
of
hand.

“Really
and
truly,
I
want
the
reunion
to
be
entertaining,”
Toya
told
BOSSIP’s
Managing
Editor

Dani
Canada.
“So
I’m
hoping
that
we
can
come
and
we
don’t
over-talk
each
other.
I
know
it’s
going
to
be
a
dragged-out,
dirty
thing.
I
do.
I
get
it.

But
I
do
want
to
make
sure
everyone
really
gets
an
opportunity
to
say
what
needs
to
be
said
and
I
hope
they
show
everything
that
goes
down.
But
I
think
it’s
going
to
be
a
very
long
day.”

The
reality
star/entrepreneur
who
has
been
on
the
show
since
season
one,
noted
that
she
struggled
to
find
a
“10-year
worthy”
reunion
dress
considering
how
far
the
show’s
come.

She
also
reflected
on
her
#MarriedToMedicine
beginnings
that
almost
ended
quickly.

“After
season
one,
I
was
done,”
said
Toya.
“Baby,
it
took
everything.
That
was
all
[my
husband]
Eugene.
He
was
like,
“No,
you
coming
back.
You
going
to
change
that
up.
Show
the
people
who
you
really
are.”
I
was
like,
“No.
No.
I
don’t
want
to
do
it.”

She
continued,

“And
honestly,
oh
my
God,
10
years
later,
it’s
surprising.
But
it’s
so
amazing
because
really
and
truly,
oh,
we’ve
learned
so
much,
all
of
us,
and
we’ve
grown.
And
I’m
telling
you,
last
night
I
was
looking
at
myself
and
I
was
like,
“I’m
so
ashamed.
How
dare
have
you
been
on
there?
You
just
talk
about
spending
all
the
time
and
no
wonder,”
but
I
got
it
now.”

Despite
“getting
it
now”
when
it
comes
to
reality
TV,
Toya
noted
that
she’s
not
afraid
to
demand
accountability,
something
that’s
been
a
recurring
theme
in
season
10.

When
newbie
Phaedra
Parks
brought
Quad
Webb
to
Sweet
Tea’s
bachelorette
party,
Toya
called
them
out
because
Quad
was
not
invited
and
moreover,
Sweet
Tea
was
preparing
to
marry
Quad’s
ex,

Dr.
Gregory
Lunceford.

Despite
Quad
later
telling
#M2M
fans
that
she
was
just
“doing
her
job”,
Toya
told
BOSSIP
that
that’s
untrue
and
wondered
why
she
won’t
take
accountability
for
just
“wanting
to
make
an
entrance.”

“You
know,
I
believe
in
good
drama
on
TV,
I
do.
But
I
also
believe
in

real
drama,”
said
the
Toya
Harris
Wine
Collection
creator.
“I
don’t
like
people
saying
that
they
have
a
script
or
that
they
had
to
show
up,
because
we
all
have
a
choice
in
the
matter,
nobody
can
make
grown
women;
almost
50,
almost
40,
almost
60,
do
anything.
It’s
not
in
our
contract.”

I’m
doing
my
job;
I’m
never
anywhere
I’m
not
invited.
My
job
told
me
Quad
this
is
your
que
then
I
walked
in

#married2med

—
Quad
Webb
(@AbsolutelyQuad)

November
20,
2023

Quad
cleared
things
up
quickly
about
tonight’s
episode
,
“it’s
in
my
job
description”

#Married2med

pic.twitter.com/dBatimncUn

—
Pure😋/Honey🍯
(@pjlovespj)

November
20,
2023

“So
stop
with
the
nonsense,”
she
continued,
“I
want
it
to
be
known
flat
out,
she
came
by
her
own
free
will.
She
wanted
to
be
there.
She
wanted
a
check.
And
so
my
thing
is
if
you’re
going
to
do
that,
then
you
need
to
own
that.
Don’t
come
in
here
acting
like
you
were
invited
by
a
producer
and
[have]
Phaedra
saying,
‘You
just
wanted
you
to
explain
yourself
to
the
group
‘because
there’s
so
many
other
opportunities,
there
were
so
many
other
opportunities
for
her
to
come
and
explain
herself.

“She
wanted
to
make
an
entrance
and
if
you
know
Quad,
she
likes
entrances.
And
so
that
was
her
debut.
And
I
just
felt
like
that
wasn’t
right
because
it
took
away
from
Tisha’s
moment.
And
definitely
a
moment
that
I
planned
so
I
wasn’t
about
to
pretend
with
the
people.”

Source:
Mindy
Small
/
Getty

Speaking
of
accountability,
Toya
also
responded
to
fan
allegations
that
she
and
the
other
ladies
were
being
“mean
girls”
by
seemingly
trying
to
oust
Quad
from
the
group.

See
what
Toya
thinks
about
those
comments
on
the
flip.

According
to
Toya,
despite
what
fans
think
about
a
tense
moment
when
the
group
asked
Quad
to
leave
a
trip
to
Napa
Valley,
there’s
much
more
to
the
story.

Source:
Santiago
Felipe
/
Getty

In
case
you
missed
it,
in
a
previous
episode
Toya
invited
all
of
the
ladies
to
join
her
in
Sonoma
to
introduce
them
to
their
wine
collection.
When
they
got
there,
however,
she
and
the
group
asked
Quad
to
leave
citing
a
lack
of
emotional
collection
and
allegations
that
she
disappeared
from
the
group
until
cameras
started
rolling.

According
to
Toya,
the
group
isn’t
being
“mean”,
they’re
just
being
real.

“I
think
“mean
girls”
is
a
misconception
because
I
think
the
reality
is
when
they
watch
our
show,
one
of
the
most
important
things
they’ve
always
asked
of
us
was
to
keep
it
real,”
Toya
told
BOSSIP.

“They’ve
always
said
that

Married
to
Medicine
was
one
of
those
shows
where
it
wasn’t
contrived,
where
it
was
actually
real
friendship.
So
what
do
y’all
want
from
us
now?
Do
you
want
us
to
pretend?
Do
you
want
us
to
become
like
other
shows
that
you
complain
about?
Because
we’re
just
really
and
truly
at
a
place
where
we’re
like,
“Look,
how
many
times
do
we
have
to
give
people
the
chance
to
actually
be
a
real
friend?!”

Source:
Phylicia
J.
L.
Munn
/
Bravo

“Don’t
get
me
wrong,
we
are
coworkers,”
she
continued.
“We
are,
we
come
to
work
and
we
clock
in,
like
you
said.
But
the
reality
is
in
the
midst
of
clocking
in,
we
try
to
maintain
friendships.
The
reality
is
we
try
to
maintain,
off
camera,
a
relationship.

“How
do
you
build
a
relationship
if
you
separate
yourself
from
these
individuals?
And
so
I
can’t
do
that.
That’s
a
part
of
my
job.
My
job
is
to
build
relationships
with
the
people
on
my
show
and
maintain
it.
And
if
she’s
not
willing
to
do
that
part
of
her
job,
which
is
the
most
important
part,
then
she
needs
to
find
herself
a
new
job
with
her
real
friends.”

Following
that,
Toya
also
dished
on
flack
she
received
for
making
amends
with
former

Married
To
Medicine
star
Anila
Saja,
but
not
Quad.

In
season
9
Anila’s
home
was
burglarized
and
rumors
surfaced
that
Toya
and
her
husband
Eugene
somehow
played
a
part
in
it
considering
that
they
live
in
the
same
neighborhood
and
there
was
bad
blood
between
them.
Quad
went
on
to
perpetuate
the
rumor
and
according
to
Toya,
she
accepted
Anila’s
apology
after
she
vehemently
apologized
in
private.

Anila,
Contessa,
&
Toya!
❤️

#Married2Med

pic.twitter.com/rA8uOZa26L

—
jay
(@JaysRealityBlog)

December
17,
2023

She
has
not
however
forgiven
Quad,
despite
the
reality
star

apologizing
in
a
Carlos
King
interview.

“I
really
want
the
people
to
understand
that
if
Quad
was
sorry…”
Toya
began.
“Me
and
Quad
have
been
in
the
same
room
since
then.
She
has
never
once
said,
“I’m
sorry.”
She’s
never
pulled
me
aside,
woman-to-woman,
and
said
to
me
…
which
is
what
Anila
did.
Anila
was
banned
from
my
house,
okay?
But
Anila,
because
we
live
in
the
same
neighborhood,
would
come
over
here
with
her
kids,
with
her
husband,
and
was
like,
“Look,
I
need
to
apologize
for
me.”
She
was
like,
“And
for
you,
but
for
me
because
I
was
not
being
my
authentic
self.”
And
she
was
like,
“I’m
sorry.
I
did
and
said
some
things.
I
didn’t
stand
up
when
I
knew
things
weren’t
right.
I’m
sorry.”

She
was
like,
“And
you
may
not
want
to
be
my
friend,
but
at
the
end
of
the
day,
please
know
that
I’m
genuine
when
I’m
saying
that
I’m
sorry
and
I
will
never
do
that
again.”
And
I
was
like,
“Okay.”
That’s
all
you
can
really
ask
from
someone.”

She
went
on
to
say
that
she
appreciated
Anila’s
apology
because
the
style
blogger
took

real
accountability
but
Quad
did
not.

Source:
Mindy
Small
/
Getty

That’s
not
all
she
said,
however,
hit
the
flip
for
more.

Toya
told
BOSSIP
that
Anila
made
many
attempts
to
reconcile
with
her,
but
Quad
did
not
and
that’s
allegedly
a
recurring
theme.

Source:
Married
To
Medicine
/
Bravo

“Quad
has
not
made
any
effort,”
Toya
told
BOSSIP.
“It’s
like
Simone
said
on
Andy
[Watch
What
Happens
Live],
when
the
camera’s
on,
she’s
on
but
when
the
camera
is
off,
she’s
herself.
She
doesn’t
call
you.
She
doesn’t
own
anything.
But
right
before
that
scene
in
Napa,
she
walked
into
our
room
and
I
said,
“Oh,
I’m
surprised
to
see
you
here.”

She
said,
“Why
would
you
be?
I
have
to
get
my
check.”
She
didn’t
say,
“I’m
here
to
support
you.”
She
didn’t
say,
“Toya,
I
wanted
to
spend
some
time
with
you
to
figure
things
out.”
She
said,
“I’m
here
to
get
a
check
and
everybody
heard
it.

And
so
that’s
when
my
demeanor
was
like,
“Oh.”
And
that’s
when
Simone
said,
“You
know
what?
I
got
it,”
because
everybody
heard
it.
It
was
so
disrespectful.”

Toya
went
on
to
deny
that
she
and
her
cast
members
have
a
role
in
who
stays
and
goes
amongst
the
group
despite
fans
believing
that
they’re
ousting
Quad
and
alleging
that
the
same
thing
happened
to
Mariah
Huq.

Shout
out
to

@TheKingOfShade1
for
the
receipts!!!!
Watch
until
the
end
because
the
statements
from
Quad
did
not
age
well.
She
was
hyped
when
they
did
to
Mariah
what
they
are
now
doing
to
her.
Oh
Well.
👀

#Married2Medicine

#Married2Med

pic.twitter.com/sYVZs113JE

—
HowYSeeItPodcast
(@HowYSeeIt)

December
11,
2023

“If
people
don’t
know
this
by
now,
I
am
an
advocate
for
our
show,”
said
Toya.
“I’ve
always
been
an
advocate
for
new
faces,
of
old
faces.
I’ve
always
brought
back
old
faces,
okay?
Whether
it
be
Mariah,
Kari,
Lisa,
anyone.
Shoot,
I
would
love
to
bring
back
Jill.
But
my
point
is,
I
have
always
been
an
advocate.
I’ve
never
seen
them
as
competition
because
I
don’t
feel
like
we
are
in
competition
with
each
other.
We’re
in
competition
with
ourselves
to
be
a
better
version
of
ourselves.

She
continued,

“And
I
think
when
it
comes
to
Quad,
and
even
Mariah,
I
think
that
they’ve
developed
their
own
scenario
on
their
own.
Okay?
I
think
they’re
both
great
TV.”