Bossip
Video
A
Ready
To
Love
participant
is
clearing
the
air
after
he
went
viral
for
asking
a
woman
if
she’d
rather
be
“choked
or
spanked”
before
denying
the
question’s
clear
sexual
connotations.
After
at
first
saying
that
he
“loved
the
edits”
from
the
conversation,
the
Texas-based
insurance
adjuster
followed
up
with
a
question
about
his
date;
“Was
the
question
out
of
bonds,
or
does
she
have
a
deeper
issue?”
Source:
Ready
To
Love
/
OWN
As
previously
reported,
season
9
of
the
hit
OWN
series
is
set
in
Fort
Worth where
20
eligible
singles
are
exploring
potential
romantic
connections.
Source:
Ready
To
Love
/
OWN
Hosted
by
comedian
and
actor,
Thomas
“Nephew
Tommy”
Miles,
the
dating
series
is
continuing
to
explore
the
real-life
romantic
rollercoasters
of
successful
and
striking
Black
men
and
women
in
their
30s
and
40s
as
they
search
for
authentic
relationships.
Source:
Ready
To
Love
/
OWN
Source:
Ready
To
Love
/
OWN
During
a
recent
episode,
viewers
saw
Alonzo,
a
flirtatious
insurance
adjuster
with
a
love
for
roller
skating…
go
on
a
date
with
Koshiea,
a
dazzling
divorceé
who’s
a
machine
learning
program
manager
and
realtor.
Source:
Ready
To
Love
/
OWN
The
date
did
not
go
well,
as
Koshiea
took
offense
to
Alonzo’s
rapid-fire
questions
that
she
shut
down
when
he
asked
“choked
or
spanked.”
“You
were
throwing
out
questions,
black
or
white,
summer
or
spring,
and
every
one
I
answered,”
said
Koshiea.
“You
threw
out,
choked
or
spanked–I
said,
‘Hey,
that’s
not
a
question
I’m
willing
to
answer.’
My
answer
for
you
caused
you
to
say,
‘I
don’t
know
how
this
got
sexual.’”
“I
wasn’t
coming
from
a
sexual
place,”
said
Alonzo
seemingly
gaslighting
his
date
who
warned
him
that
they
could
change
the
subject
or
the
date
would
end.
“Things
got
a
little
intense
but
you
gave
a
piece
of
it,”
he
continued.
“But
the
whole
totality
of
the
conversation,
we
was
rattling
off
questions–so
if
you
wanna
give
me
the
respect
of
asking
me
if
I
meant
sexual
or
not,
you
should
have
done
that.”
Koshiea
then
sipped
her
drink
and
left.
As
you
can
imagine,
the
shocking
moment
has
the
Internet
in
an
uproar
with
various
opinions,
many
of
which
are
accusing
him
of
gaslighting…
and
now
Alonzo’s
issuing
a
response.
On
Instagram,
the
Ready
To
Love
participant
uploaded
a
TMZ-style
video
to
answer
questions
about
the
incident.
“First
and
foremost,
I
love
the
edits,
it’s
cool,”
began
Alonzo.”You
ever
see
your
girl
cooking
in
the
kitchen
and
you
spank
her
on
the
butt?
That’s
sexual?
Or
if
she
doing
laundry
and
she
bends
over?
You
ever
smack
her
on
the
butt
then?
You
ever
give
your
girl
a
kiss
and
choke
her?”
He
went
on
to
say
that
he
likes
to
push
boundaries
and
he
created
a
party
game
called
“Don’t
Be
Toxic”
that
features
questions
similar
to
the
one
he
asked.
Following
that,
he
posted
a
photo
from
his
date
where
he
asked;
“Was
the
question
out
of
bounds
or
does
she
have
a
deeper
issue?
Comment
below
lmk
your
takes
!”
As
you
can
imagine,
that
is
also
not
going
over
well
for
him.
Are
you
watching
Ready
To
Love?
Things
are
definitely
getting
spicy…
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